So, I got into a conversation with Amanda about how I would describe my perfect man, and we decided it would be a perfect blog entry so here goes.
Taller than me, but not more than a foot taller
I'm not too picky about hair color, but I'm partial to lighter
Short hair, I hate long hair
No facial hair
not to scruffy in his dress, but not too preppy either
good eyes, maybe not ones that everyone loves, but ones that I do
A good smile, that he uses a lot
Someone who respects me and sees me as an equal
Has a desire to care for me and protect me
Listens to me, is a shoulder to cry on
Easy to talk to, someone I can tell everything to
makes it clear how much he cares about me
A good sense of humor, a clean one
Can make me laugh, every day
Honors his priesthood and is a worthy priesthood holder
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Loves God and strives to be close to him
Values and loves his family, and mine
Cares about others
Has a willingness to serve
Honest
Loyal
Smart enough that I can have an intelligent conversation with him
Loves kids and is good with them
active
A friendly people person, who doesn't judge others and is friends with all types of people
Outgoing, but not overwhelmingly so
Fun to be around
Loves the gospel, and the church
Kind hearted
Forgiving
Has a testimony of the Atonement, and other gospel principles
Knows how to have a good time, how to be serious, and knows when each is appropriate
Someone with whom I can be myself completely
Lets me have my space when I need it
Feels honored to have me
Makes me feel honored to have him
Someone who I can communicate easily with
Enjoys reading
Clean
Ability to cook
Hard worker
Someone who I can turn to when I'm having a hard time, who will let me get everything off my shoulders, be understanding about it, but then make me laugh so I can move on
A good hugger
Appreciates art in all it's forms
Not afraid to cry in front of me
Someone I can feel comfortable being silent with
Someone who will take me to the temple
Can tell when I'm having a bad day, and knows how to make me feel better
Someone who will sing to me, even if he has a bad voice
Sees my true worth, and helps me to see it to
Has confidence in
himself, but is not proud
Will bring me flowers, just because
romantic, but not sappy
Someone who brings out the best in me, and in whom I bring out the best
Has a good relationship with his parents, and his siblings
Someone with a family I can love
Loves music
Puts my the needs of others before his own
selfless
Looks at me when I'm looking absolutely horrible and still thinks I'm beautiful
My best friend
Someone who has not only an attractive appearance, but importantly, an attractive personality.
That's all I can think of right now, and I think it's a pretty good start. I hope I find him one day, and until then, I'll work to become his Perfect Woman.